As much as I try not to participate, I catch myself in negatively divisive thought. "Oh, look at her! Such a young, beautiful woman with such an awful tattoo." Or, "Dang ... she's too old to be wearing that!" It's her business, not mine. I make assumptions based on first impressions way too much. People may make similar pre-judgments of me, too, which isn't fair. And such over-emphasis placed on looks and youth. So superficial.
MissRepresentation encourages us:
"For the next week, let's all make a concerted effort to see women as allies instead of enemies; and let's stop judging other women for their success, their talents or their looks."
The newsletter suggests the "assumption of scarcity and the feeling that there isn't enough room for all of us" is the impetus of such competitive judgement. There seems to be some unnatural criticism that I can't fully understand, almost as if we're pitting against one another for ubiquitous attention from an unknown force. Is it innate? I hope not. It seems we are cultured to be catty, and we have to end the vicious circle with our own self-realization to stop acting this way.Instead, I'd like to hope there are many more women like Marina Keegan, a young Yale writer, who tragically lost her life just days after graduation. Her last essay, The Opposite of Lonely, has gone viral since her untimely death. She said, "We can’t, we MUST not lose this sense of possibility because in the end, it’s all we have.
Such positivity! Her wonderful attitude and hope scream from the page. She had such great plans for her future. Regardless of a grim job outlook for new college grads in sketchy economic times. I think she spoke to the universal human experience, one where we must help sustain each other.
This kind of unity and support is what I wish was viral. People uplifting each other with great expectations for themselves and humankind. Young women reaching out to other young women to seek out the positive aspects within their time on earth and not hatefully compete with each other. May we all have tomorrows to do so.